My cousin has sent me an article from the NY Times stating that it is now ok to have curly hair and there are now products that help those of use who suffer from curly frizz so that our curls will look good when styled. Apparently we no long need to sleep on coke cans or iron our hair. Why couldn’t this fashion decision have come when I still had enough hair to matter? With all I lost during menopause, I barely have enough to cover my head.