Based on my own experience, one would expect me to not be very enthused about weddings. One would be wrong. I am not enthused about marriage but family weddings are always welcomed because in my family, everyone shows up. We may not pay a lot of attention to the bride and groom because, after all, we see them all the time anyway. But oh what fun to reconnect with those far flung members of the clan who seem to appear only for weddings and funerals due to distance and time. The big question is, as it always is when the family throws a party, “Where Is Bart?” If he appears at your festivities, you know you rate.